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What a session with an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist can look like
Internal Family Systems Jeremy Mohler Internal Family Systems Jeremy Mohler

What a session with an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist can look like

Your therapist asks you to slow down and focus your attention on the tension. Then they ask you if any images come to mind when you put your attention on this part of you. Nothing comes at first. Your therapist reminds you to slow down and see where your mind takes you. An image of yourself as a third grader starts to appear in your imagination. You remember one time when your teacher criticized you in front of the class for not doing your homework. You remember feeling worried in that moment, like you did something wrong and you need to do something to fix it.

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Group Therapy Helps You Grow Into Who You’re Truly Meant to Be
Group Therapy Jeremy Mohler Group Therapy Jeremy Mohler

Group Therapy Helps You Grow Into Who You’re Truly Meant to Be

Group therapy provides the opportunity to hear other people talk about their experience with issues you might also be going through. This can normalize what you’re struggling with, helping you feel less alone. Research shows that group therapy can be just as effective as individual therapy, particularly because they provide social support and reduce stigma, isolation, and feelings of alienation.

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When in Doubt, Sleep!
Anxiety Hetty Barnett, LCSW-C Anxiety Hetty Barnett, LCSW-C

When in Doubt, Sleep!

I’ve been reading a book called Why We Sleep (2017) by the neuroscience and psychology professor Matthew Walker. His data and insights about how sleep impacts our health and well-being is motivating to me. I’ve definitely been giving myself more sleep opportunity (time spent in bed each night, ready to sleep) and I have noticed a daily improvement in my focus, energy and resilience. I like it! If sleep were a medication, Walker quips, we’d all want it.

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